You’ve probably had to explain your identity or relationship structure one too many times. Maybe you’ve even been shamed, pathologized, or treated like your lifestyle was “the issue” in therapy. Here, you won’t be asked to censor yourself.

I offer affirming therapy for people in alternative lifestyles, including kink, polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM), BDSM, and D/s dynamics. You deserve a space that respects your autonomy, values your identity, and supports your mental health without judgment or assumptions.

Quick note:
I’m not a sex therapist, so we won’t be doing sexual skills work in sessions. If that’s what you’re looking for, I suggest seeking out a therapist that is AASECT certified. But we can talk about how your relationships, dynamics, power exchange, identity, and emotional needs intersect with other mental health needs, and how to process whatever’s coming up around them.

You might be dealing with:

• Navigating jealousy, boundaries, or communication in polycules or open relationships

• Feeling invalidated, fetishized, or misunderstood in past therapy

• Processing shame, fear, or vulnerability around kink or power exchange

• Struggling to balance D/s dynamics with mental health symptoms or trauma histories

• Unpacking internalized messages about control, worth, or autonomy

How I Help

I offer virtual, identity-affirming therapy that holds space for the complexity of your relationships, dynamics, and experiences, without pathologizing who you are or how you live.

In sessions, we might:

• Explore communication, boundaries, and emotional regulation within your dynamic or relationship structure

• Process feelings of shame, fear, or confusion around your identity or roles

• Talk about trauma, anxiety, or depression without blaming your lifestyle

• Clarify values and needs across multiple relationships or power-based dynamics

• Build coping skills and safety plans that align with your needs, limits, and chosen roles

Ready To Start?

I offer online therapy across Kansas for young adults in alternative lifestyles. Whether you’re navigating D/s dynamics, polyamory, ENM, kink identity, or just want a therapist who understands it, I’m here to help!